hillbunny,

It seems like you got as far down as it is possible to go and then saw a way to make things better. I know what you mean about forgetting how to feed yourself and wearing a hole in the couch!

Its making me think about what I am doing and how stuck i am at the moment. I never thought of going sideways, thanks for posting this, its been an eye opener for me.

And im glad you have found an easier route. Im off to look for mine.

Atg