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Originally Posted by zooropa
In her mind she did a wonderful thing and wanted to be friends again after yesterdays session.
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Wow, I didn't realize she wanted to be friends again!
I thought that exchange was awful. I am glad you blocked her. Texting such important stuff is not a good way to communicate. It seems like she should have said all that stuff face to face if it was so important to her. I think you should ditch the group (and her). JMO. With people like that, I think the best response is no response and refuse to think even one more minute about them. Your life and time are too valuable to waste on thinking about her or being upset about her.
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Originally Posted by zooropa
I am SUCH a loyal friend, I will hold on to people way, way past what would be a healthy time to let go.
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That is what I meant about sitting still and putting up with it--just like being abused. I am glad you want to be healthy and let her go!!
