I dunno, maybe I am lacking hormones or something, but it is hard for me to feel my genitals when they are touched. It even feels weird, not plesant at all. Maybe it's just to abrasive or the guy is doing it the wrong way. I am not on any meds, but I was from age 10-24 so maybe it messed wtih my sexual development?? I either don't have an orgasm or it takes like 2 hours to have one. I am pretty fustrated sexually. I don't know if I am even turned on or not.