Oh, that is such a difficult situation to be in! I would be a basket case for sure! Will you be able to find out how T is doing? I would keep telling the other T your feelings. I don't understand how she could not know, but if you keep telling her she'll get it. Do the Ts know each other? If so, can you get updates on her that way? I hope your T gets better quickly, closer to the 2 weeks than the 6.