I have been in a relationship for around 3 years now, but its becoming quite complicated.
It started off pretty great, then after 1 year we moved in together, have little arguements here and there (who doesnt) but then late last year i started getting really bad pains during sex.
Since then i have been to the doctors pretty much every week about these pains and was told i would have to have a laparoscopy (key hole surgery) because he thought it might be endometriosis. Went to 3 different gynaecologists all said endo and i wont be able to have kids. Now my bf took this...strangely. He completely blocked himself off from me, not talking, not wanting to know what was going on in my life etc.
Since then, i have had my operation (on thursday) and suprise surprise i DO NOT have endo
So where is all my pain coming from?
Bf is being so hard on me that i am faking that it hurts to have sex etc and thats all he talks about, he says i need to get back to gynae and ask why it hurts to have sex blah blah
i feel as though he doesnt care about the diabolical pain i am in everyday, hes only worried about the sex part.
I feel trapped and dont know what to do anymore.
Maybe its a typical male thing - or maybe hes just fed up with me and my "stupid excuses"

Thanks for letting me vent