great thread great posting I agree 100%. I don't mind lending my knowledge but Im the first one to admit I'm not the one to pull people away from that suicidal edge. In real life I tried and when it started being an everyday get me out of college class to babysit and save suicidal neighbor I handed her the pills told her to get on with it and I will be calling her therapist which I did. From that day on I send the person to their therapist or I call the therapist/police/911 and let the person deal with the consequences of their actions. I have enough keeping myself on track. you may not be a therapist but your a mind reader you wrote the post I would have in your same situation. way to go.