Hi again Jessie. I think you need to put your foot down with your therapist and PDoc and tell them what you have indicated here that you need from them! They work FOR YOU. Please mention the issue to them about the accident when you were 3 and your Mom being "unavailable" for quite some time afterwards. You may have answered your own question and you may indeed have separation anxiety. Three is the same age I was when my Mom was sick on the bathroom floor for 9 months carrying my sister. I dont actually "remember" it, but in therapy, talking with parents, and dealing with my panic and anxiety issues, I learned WHY I absolutely run in a wild panic if I hear someone being sick........and why I do not like my sister ! Its amazing how things that happen to us when we are so young can have such a lasting effect, and it makes me realize how absolutely horrible it must be for those who were truly abused !