Thank you very much Rhiannon.
And I apologize for my earlier anger to those others I just yelled at.
I do not feel good when I feel like people tell me what I "need to do". I am just like that. I don't tell anyone what they need to do. I just validate their feelings/experiences and do "active listening".
We all support each other differently and we all react differently.
Things are shaping up.
thank goodness.
Peace and Happy Thanksgiving.
Billi
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Originally Posted by Rhiannonsmoon
Hello Billi,
You are in a difficult situation. Jealousy is something that can ruin the best of relationships even though you are deeply in love, jealousy is the deal breaker relationships can't survive.
I'm glad you are talking, I am hoping that it is a really open minded discussion because jealousy will rear its head again and again. It's something both of you ceremoniously must work on because of its insideousness; starting with one snide remark going into really hurtful comments. If he can let go of it you have a chance; if he can't let go of it then you are best divorced. You are right, love is not a prison.
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