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Originally Posted by zooropa
I know she doesn't have a history of abuse because she told me so, many times. she even said it again during group yesterday.
i havent gotten to talk to my T about it yet, but I will tomorrow. especially since i got 3 texts from M tonight.
she feels so much better after group, shes so glad I stayed because it helped her so much, blah blah blah. It makes me angry and...violated? Like what I feel doesnt matter, my experience doesnt matter, its just a convenient vehicle for her to work out her issues.
#uck that noise.
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seriously - who the f*** does she think she is? im sorry but someone who will flatten and devastate someone else in the name of their own personal growth and healing is NOT worth having in your life. I am soo sorry that you encountered this leach - you gave her friendship and she sucked out your life - squash her and move on, zoo -
You are a loving, caring, vibrant, intelligent person with personal ethics/morals who tragically had extreme darkness in your past - but you ARE HERE - and you share your light and energy with us here - and we all can see this is you - we dont see any of the other stuff - we feel your pain and know this is in your past but it IS NOT YOU! YOU ARE GOOD, you are healing, you are worthy of being seen, heard, understood, loved.
Please carry these things with you - and block that M from your phone!
