zooey, i'm sorry i only read through this thread now. i'm glad you've seen T and are focussing on YOU for the rest of this week.

like gelfling, i do wonder if there is something you can take from this situation. maybe it's about asserting your side of the story next time in group, or maybe it's about making a proactive decision to cut this toxic person from your life, or maybe it's an opportunity for you to grow your inner strength and truth so that when other people (with their own issues) pass judgement, you can keep their issues separate from you.

i feel nauseous that she had the audacity to txt you. im not a violent person but i do feel like sending her a massive b1tch slap.

i really really really do hope you can go back to group and process this, your side of the story. maybe there will be more people there and it would be a more supportive environment for you. if you want, i come jump in your handbag and randomly pop out and hiss at her.

bah, im fuming on your behalf. much love, dearest .