(((jen)))
You are not at fault even if those around you at times can make you feel that way. Those that do not have truama memeiors at times do not understand the fact that when someone makes us feel unsafe it is a big deal to us for it reminds us how defensless that we can be at times. It is not until we learn how to be safe and know that we can protect our selfs that we can let go of the events that cause us so much stress and fear.
just know that we are here and are listening to you.
sending safe hugs and thoughts that you are not alone.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson
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