I really hope that you can get a copy of the will. If there is an executor there is usually a reading of the will at a lawyers office. But if you have had the will kept from you can take it to court. You can also find out if there was another will written before that one which took care of you. Something isn't quite right and why would she tell your room mate that knowing your room mate would tell you? I agree that she isn't what she appears to be...Good luck with it and let us know how you go,

Rhiannon