lynn will pass on to you what my T suggested to me re my hurtful family...how do you stay healthy in an unhealthy "relationship"?-emotional distance and in my case i do miles as well. it's not your fault. they are unhealthy, not you, imho. 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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