Thank-you Riannonsmoon for your kind words, I to pray that my brother is cancer free the only problem is they can't find the primary source so it means he has to get checked all the time because it can return.
Mt mother on the other hand refuses to talk to anyone she is a very proud women and will not admit she may need help.
My daughter on the other hand can get no help from our embassy because they cannot intervene with the laws of that country because they are only guests and basically told me the only way out would be to wrap her up in a rug and escape.
I am so at my wits end and feel so helpless I am so tiried!!!!!!!!!!emotionally!!