I met this guy years ago, then we found each other on facebook and he moved here to be with me. We moved way to fast, somehow he ended up living with me and for free for the most part. He would do some things around the house and stuff orsay that taking me out to dinner covered his portion of the rent. He worked sometimes but convinced me that he could work better and our relationship would be deeper and better if he could get glassblowing equiptment to make more money. He played on my vunerabilities, my desire to have a partner and a family. He said he would always be there for me.

I bought him a torch, a kiln on my credit card and put an oxygen tank in my name. He has paidme back for the torch but he is 2 payments late on the kiln and still hasnt' paid rental on the oxygen tank. thats 500 dollars plus a liability of 300 for the tank if it done'st get returned. Our relationship took a turn for a worse after I got him these things, he kept saying 'lets always be best freinds' and wouldn't communicate with me when I asked for communication. He wouldn'teven let me meet his freinds or wach him blow glass! I would get upset whn he wouldn't communicate and then since i got upset because he wasn't following thorugh with his promise to have a family and be with me, I was having mental health problems. Last week he said he would get me the money but he has not gotten into contact with me for a week when he said he would call the next day. All this stuff is at someone elses house. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting about him being 2 payments late and not contacting me or what.

We have a contract, but I don't know what good it will do with an under the table job and him really not caring about the legal system. I also have his life folder with his important documents and birth certificate.

I am definatly very hurt. At first I wanted to be able to preserve the relationship but at this point I just want my mony back.

I have social anxiety so I am scared to call the numbers of his freinds. I don't know them and they don't know me. I am scared to go to the place where I know he is set up. He is very overbearing and he would swindle me if I went over there and I would get very shy. I really don't know what to do. He is supposed to have all his payments by Dec. 6th. He is supposed to make a payment a week and hasn't made any. SHould I wait til then? Should i call his freinds now to try to get in contact with him? His phone doens't work. SHould I try to go over there and get the equiptment back? I am so lost. I put so much into this relationship the past year nad I can't belive that someone who calls me even their best freind would do this to me.