Has the thought occurred that many of these questions we ask ourselves, are not really important? What you like or decide to wear, drink or eat, does not the person make, nor do they identify who or what you are. These particular sorts of things serve only to clutter the mind. A person can like numerous things, the favorites be changeable, however the mood strikes you. Which is wonderful! Because we have sooooo many! LOL! And really, when you think of this sort of thing as a huge problem in your life, treating it with the utmost seriousness, well, it stresses a person out. What comes to mind as I write this is Lucille Ball. Was the Lucy character BPD? I think so. Least that's what I think. Could you sit back and see some humor in the indecisions we have?