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Old Nov 23, 2010, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted by treehouse View Post
Every time I hug T at the end of session and then come to the next session to find the same safe T and the same safe relationship, I think I heal a little more inside.


YES!!!!! ((((((TREE)))) Thank you so much for saying it this way!
That is exactly how I feel too !!!!!!

Yesterday at the end of session (T and I both knowing we were not going to see eachother for 2 wks), we had a slightly longer hug at the end - more like 4 whole seconds rather than 2 seconds! It was powerful for me because I felt like he was telling me that he would continue to hold me in his heart until we met again. And it was wonderful because of what you just said! I KNOW that the next time I see my T, that he will be the "same safe" T who was there yesterday for me. That the hug - even the extra long hug - did not change him or make him fear me or make him think I was bad or that he wasn't safe with me or whatever else. That he is the SAME safe T !!!

Thanks so much for saying it this way!