Awww, of course you can have my words!

I'd also like to say that it is very hard for me to be a nice person. I want so often to just be left alone that it's a struggle to not snap at someone, to not bite their head off... I have to really take the adage "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" to heart. That and the Hippocratic oath, even though I'm not in the medical profession. I think it can be applied to almost any situation. If you can't help, do no harm.