sometimes T's do that really annoying thing and act like a human and make a mistake instead of beign the T's we know - when that happens it is so unnerving - they are our rock - our safe zone and suddenly they are acting out of the character that maybe we have assigned to them.

I know this was very distressing for you - but maybe it was one moment when she dropped her T face cos she was so frustrated that she wasnt helping you ? and yes it was all about her for a while - and i bet she is regretting that .

somtimes our T's say stuff that wounds us so deep we think we wil never get past it - somtimes we dont - somtimes it makes our relationship stronger - i hope this makes yours stronger in the long run once safety is regained and trust is won again

big hugs my friend - hope your sessions go well



P7