I agree with the others -- this T sounds like a loser (and some of them definitely are.)

Trust your instincts, and go find a better T. It can take some time, but it's definitely worth it.

There's info around about how to screen T's so that you improve your chances of finding one that works for you -- like, interviewing them to make sure they have experience in working with your particular issues; checking to see if their therapeutic approach is one that seems good to you, and so on. Also, a general rule of thumb seems to be that you should go for a few sessions to see if the T is a good fit.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with deciding to change T's, especially if it's not a pattern.

-Far