Hello Melinda,
In 99% of relationships there is a more dominant personality who will take over things while the other will allow this to be done so that they basically don't have to do anything.
It can get stressfull at times, and it can get very tiring and annoying but it has to be done. If it bothers you just hand half of everything to him to do and then you'll have something to talk about.
I really wish you luck on this one because once habits are formed they are very hard to break.
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