I have not had the urge to drive by my T's home, or if I do, I don't allow myself to. I want to keep his and my personal lives separate. I sense a boundary there, and I like the boundary! I would see driving by his home as intruding into his personal life, whether or not he knew I drove by or not. I just like to keep our lives separate! I see him in therapy and like it that way. I also quoted that bit about being "insanely curious" because I wonder if that might be why I don't want to go by my T's house? I am not insanely curious about him. He self discloses in session a lot, so I feel like I know a ton of stuff about him, so there is nothing to be curious about. I know most everything I want to know about him.