Funny thing is that, yes I have been given a lot of attention as a child, but my mother has greatly encouraged me to be an individual. If there was something I wanted to do she encouraged that I do that. If it's not what I wanted to do... then I didn't always unless it would be a good learning experience. I am a people pleaser naturally, I don't like others to be upset so I guess sometimes I take other people's problems too hard. Or if they're mad at me it really upsets me.