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Originally Posted by bpd mess
my T is so re-parenting me. she's the one that will sit on the couch and hold me. she's the one that tell's me she's proud of me. she's the one that tells me she isn't going anywhere over and over again. all that stuff i didn't get growing up. she said it isn't wierd and she's fine with it. i'm so glad. she says someday i won't need it - it's a process. and she's a year younger than i am.
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So many of you have posted such nice things about your nuturing therapist that I wonder why I have not found a Therapist like that in years and years. I wish I had a T who could provide the love that I am so much lacking. I know that I would make good progress with someone who could provide so much love and concern. Where and how do you find that perfect match. Many are nice but not loving and I will always compare my first T to each one. I need someone who will boost my self esteem that is now very low. In the NY area there must be some good T that are nuturing. I wish I could find that person.
