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I am really sorry you are going through this rough patch. I suppose some T's are like that, where they want to hear YOUR feelings instead of speaking their own. Sometimes, though, it's best that they do give you their feelings. I'm not sure why she won't, but have you actually had an honest to goodness talk to her about it? Have you told her everything you feel and how you feel about this particular subject? If you just told her everything that you've told us, it should get you somewhere. And if not, I say look for a new T.

Wish you the best of luck.