ZH,

Look at it like this. Imagine a person build a house for 100 people to live in and when its finished the others come along. The people who move in paint their walls pink and put down yellow carpets in their rooms. Imagine if the builder hates pink, and yellow carpets? What is he to do. Can the builder ask that the people change their walls, and their carpets. Not really, the builder just has to let go and keep the bit he has the way he wants it. Its part of being a community, and part of being with others. If no harm is being caused and the builder can still be how he wants to be then what s the problem.

Does the builder have more rights cos he was there from day one? Does the builder have more of a say cos it was their idea to build the house?

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