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Originally Posted by googley
Me asking "what do you think about x?" her: what do you think I think about x?
I don't know that I can trust her to give me the truth. To tell me what she really thinks. And if I can't trust her to tell me the truth, how can I trust her with anything else?
I don't know if she believes in me.
Is it too much to ask to have someone who believes in me? To ask my T to believe in me?
I need my place where I can feel like I don't have to be perfect.
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Hi Googley, it is true, you are paying her to help you work through these things what she thinks is not going to advance that.
What are you really wanting from her?
Your beliefs about your perfection seem to tie in with all of this? Were you seeking her approval?