Googley, let her know what you need to hear. I had to do that with my T when I was not getting what I felt I needed. I had to just come out and ask point blank: "T, I need you to look me in the eyes and let me know if you believe what I am telling you about my past - or if you think I am mentally ill and made up all this stuff for some reason?" ((That was my exact question to me)) He looked me in the eye and said slowly, "W- I BELIEVE you." Somehow, that broke our relationship through to a different level, a deeper level, of trust.