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Old Nov 17, 2005, 08:09 PM
Lexicon78 Lexicon78 is offline
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Me and my bf have been repeatedly fighting over the same thing throughout the past few months...my sexuality. He has a problem with it, I don't. I am secure in my sexuality and he thinks it's an abomination. I am bisexual and he has a really big problem with it.

How can I be with someone who thinks part of me is an abomination? He keeps saying as long as I don't bring it up or as long as it's "hidden" from his view he doesn't care. So where does that leave me? I feel so imprisoned right now. Like I cannot ever be myself...I cannot say how beautiful a woman is...I have to keep all my desires to myself...even if they overpower me. He is a very religious man...you know the thinking behind that regarding lesbians and gays. This really bothers me...A LOT! I am, of course, a very open-minded individual that would rather die than be subjected to that kind of thinking. What should I do? He wants to marry me, but I tell him he only loves me conditionally...not unconditionally. I tell him he only wants the part of me that he approves of. He gets very angry when I say this, but it is the truth.

Any suggestions or advice?
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