Personally it sounds like she's been teaching too much and lost the ballance of practicing therapy. Honestly, you get questionairs and worksheets? that is teaching not therapy. I prefer anaytical T's more than warm fuzzies but she doesn't sound like she is doing that well either. I have walked into a new T's office more than once with a "biography" printed out to give them an overview. Every one of them set it upside down on their desk and said they wanted to talk with me not read it. All those "biographies" ended up in the shredder unread I am sure!
Also, given what you were wanting and the time of year I think your agenda was much more valid than hers. Not to mention that unless you are avoiding something crucial your agenda should trump hers.