{{{{Lex}}}}

I'm bi, too, and lucky enough to have found a husband who is willing to share me. We had some jealousy issues, and we worked through them - he is secure enough in our relationship to know that I'm not going to leave him - my female partners have to be willing to share, too, and I go into relationships w/all parties being aware of all the conditions - there are no head games or manipulation, no 'cheating', in other words.

Honesty and communication are very important in any relationship, and at least your boyfriend is being honest that he doesn't feel comfortable with the 'other side' of your sexuality. But trying to suppress something that is natural for you just to please him will most likely cause only misery for you in the future. And if he feels you will 'give in' to him on something as important as your sexuality, think about the future disagreements that will inevitably arise - career vs. homemaker, disciplining children, financial decisions, etc. Are you always going to be willing to compromise your own desires for his?