{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Debbie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry that you're still going through all this pain.
I'm with Jen. Can you email your therapist and send her a copy of this post? If not, then print it out and snail mail it to her. It's so sad that she doesn't seem to be in tune with you. Frustrating, I'm sure!
Another thought... when and if you do email her your post, would you be able to tell her what questions to ask you to get you started talking about the things that are hurting you? I know it seems scripted, but maybe she just needs a nudge.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Debbie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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