So he brought me ice cream and made it very clear that I am a burden to him. I said that I was feeling like he was overreacting to the request, and he blew up at me, saying that no one ever does anything for him, ever.

I feel bad about that, but I asked him if I had some other sickness and had a hard day and needed a treat, would he have reacted that way and he said that he wouldn't.

Over the last week, I have found that I am a burden to him (he said during couples therapy that his friend asked him, "how do you do it?") and today sealed the deal.