"Are you always going to be willing to compromise your own desires for his? "

Don't most of us do this in relationships when we commit to monogomy? Straight or bi or gay, lots of us compromise of that issue. Plenty of us would like to have a lover on the side...or two...or three. But we try not to reach out for that so we can maintain our relationship. It's GREAT that you found someone who will accomodate your desires, and I'm glad it's working for you.

But, I'm bi and have spent life in completely monogomous relationships. I really don't want people to think that just because a person is bi, they can't be faithful to one person. They can, and I'd wager we are just as loyal to our partners are straight folks are.

Just needed to offer another perspective!

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