I met this guy at a bar we agreed to be friends with benefits, neither one of us wants a relationship since we both just got out of one. So after we set down ground rules we started to hang out and drink with his friends, we all had a pretty good time. It was exciting and new so I kept seeing him but at his apt. He's an alcoholic but he works and pays his bills so it's not ruining his life too much. Plus he's always happy when he's drunk, but he has no memory of the night before. I was drinking alot at the time so it worked for us we never remembered the night before. I started hanging out with him more after I took a 3wk break from him.
I feel like he gets possessive, one night he told his friends she's is mine I'm not sharing her with anyone. I guess they pass girls around, I hung out with him recently outside of his apt. We were out with a girlfriend of his it was sun we went to watch football. He was drunk I went outside to get smokes I told them I'll be back a few mins later he texts me where am I really. We went to another bar met more of his friends he started talking about his ex, I think he's still in love with her. I got uncomfortable so I had my sister call me I told them I was going outside to take the call. So a few mins later he's looking for me and calls me I'm already back inside. IDK what to think about him anymore.
I stopped drinking since I started new meds, he hasn't called me in a while. We were texting but that stopped last wk, now that I don't drink I've been finding out more about myself I feel like I need him but I don't want to deal with him Idk what to do I'm so confused