Somebody wrote in a post that there t had told them that she self-harms as well. It made me really curious...my t has never given me any reason to believe she has done any type of SH but I really want to ask. I think that it would make me feel more connected to her if I found out that she did, like maybe she understands more than I give her credit for. But then I feel terrible because I wouldn't wish this on anybody. What do you think? Would it be inappropriate to ask? How would you feel if your T told you that they had?