Hon "friends with benefits" is simply a title for sex with no ties and for a lack of self respect. Anyone I have ever known who has been down this road has, after the event fought terribly hard to hide this type of relationship from their subsequent partner/s.

He is not good for you and the excitement you are feeling for him is simply the excitement that was missing in your marriage before you broke up. Love yourself more than you love anyone else, and please don't mistake sexual excitement for love, there is a world of difference and one rarely ends well.

Take care of yourself hon, you deserve it and you decided on no dating for a very good reason, don't let that fall out of your consciousness it is really very important.

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