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Originally Posted by SenatorPenguin8081
I am at the point where I am able to say certain things. If I think my T is insensitive to something or that he doesn't care about me at a particular moment in time, I say so. I'd say something at your next appointment so that your T knows how much she hurt you. Turn it into a lesson for her, because I don't think she knew she was being insensitive.  |
Thanks for your response Penguin. I guess my MO is typically to be a doormat and not say anything. I'm working on not being a doormat and being more vocal. I sent her an email as perviously posted and I'm sure I will have to bring it up verbally when I see her. I'm so nervous about it and scared. I fear she is going to reject me.
Anytime I was upset about something I was told that I was being too sensitive and my feelings were never validated (when I would try to go to my mom for support - this is something I tried once - she physically pushed me away and yelled at me). Blah, blah, blah.......
Thanks for listening.