My dad has avoidant personality disorder and he drinks when he feels like he just sucks, but the rest of the time he has fun watching sports, eating good food, enjoying work and the family. If someone makes him feel like he did somethig wrong he will shrivel up. sexy women on tv help him feel better about who he is. Being with someone like my mom helps him. be confidant about who you are. Someone in your childhood made you feel bad about yourelf, but i THINK YOU ARE GREAT.