First, I agree with the others, he isn't the right guy for you.

I also want to let you know, I'm also "stuck" in a relationship. Finances is the biggest reason, for me, too, although OCD plays into it a lot. Anyway, I know how that feels.

My boyfriend hasn't had sex with me in about six and a half years. I have issues with sex--vaginal pain--but I still want to have sex (my latest diagnosis--one of many--is simply that I need to be stretched; which is odd to me, considering I had sex for about six years before this drought), and I want to be desired.

I am heterosexual, but I have a sexual curiosity to experience sex with a woman. I couldn't love a woman the way I could love a man, and I have no desire to be in a relationship with a woman, but it's just sexual.

I'm on an erotica writers list, and bisexuality has come up from time to time. Em, you're right, you can be bisexual and commit to just one person. A lot of people don't understand that. But if your romantic partners don't respect you, it doesn't matter if you have one or one hundred of them.

I'm also offering my support; you can email me anytime you need to.