i must agree with WePow, and add this,,,, Life in the Present. reliving the past is a habit, almost an addiction, give it up,, you are not your History~! we are who we make of ourselves every moment of every day. if you are kind in this moment, then you are Kind~! choose to be the person you want to be. you might find support in the Saturday Hosted Chat "Living the Life you Imagine".... hope to see you there. best wishes,, Gus