Also, the relationship you have with your T is different from ANY OTHER TYPE of relationship. It needs to be that way, for you to heal.. and for it to show by example what a good relationship looks like! It's good to realize what you want from your T, and needs to be discussed, as this is a step in the healing process. It's ok to share this information, and work through these feelings. I think you will find your T can be more than you imagine, or think you now want. TC