Its not that I have a problem as such with porn itself , its more to do with how my husband has neglected me because of his constant watching of it.There have been times when we have gone weeks/months witout any intimacy in our relationship,I blamed myself , but it was not until I confronted my husband , that he admitted to watching and touching himself to porn several times a day , when I was out of the house.His needs were being met , in his own way but I was left feeling like I was this ugly,almost untouchable person.I didnt even feel like I was a real woman,porn can and has damaged relationships.The thing is I once offered to view this stuff with my husband , but he refused , I have everything I can to save my relationship and my marriage ,even now he says he hasnt viewed it , he still makes no effort towards me and I feel back at square one again .I know I probably sound like a prude but I am at a loss for words . Thank you all for your answers xxxxx