Hi Rohag.. Thank you for writing. I think it's the way he was raised that has caused him to think the way he does and to treat women the way he does. He was raised by his grandparents who were old school. Wife does what the husband says like it or not. The woman does it "all". Inside the house and out. The husband works and when he gets off work he comes home sits in his chair and watches TV for the rest of the evening and the woman waits on him hand and foot. I told him it's the 2000's and slavery went out many years ago. This is an every night ritual. He has no friends. On the surface friends but nothing of value and substance. He won't be my friend. I am so full of hurt that I feel I am suffocating. According to him he is right and I am never right. I am a woman and beneath him. If I tell him something he has to find proof from somone else instead of just beieving me. My self esteem is non existant. It's hard to tell all that has gone on but it all plays with how this marriage is in trouble.

Take care.... broken_hearted