i'm so sorry you have to feel so alone. it doesn't sound as if he is willing or able to be a good partner. do you think he may deal with his have-nots in such a way that it has made him depressed? there are so many ppl right now with less than they used to have. doesn't give one solace knowing that but lots of ppl are coping with this dilemma. it sounds like he has withdrawn from the world. or do you think it is just you he withdraws from?
i too am curious if his behavior has changed somewhat recently or if your marriage has been off track all along. reply if you're comfortable doing that. 
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