Thank you BP2 and Lady

I think the best thing to do is just be very careful around her. I get the sense that this manager does not like me much. I do have a tendency to be very upfront and honest. I always try very hard to word things so they are not rude. I often but them in draft and go back and have a look at them later. I prefer absolute honesty myself and always try to afford others the same courtesy. I also work in a very different way to the way she is used to in the public sector. I work for both a charity and the public sector. I am used to working much more creatively.

It is really hard always watching ones back though. I wish it wasn't so. You would think in this day and age people would be less discriminative around mental health issues.