Hi! I just recently found out I am pregnant by my fiance or so i guess to call him that. He had moved out due to legal matters that is a cause for a whole nother topic. We are not supposed to be together needless to say due to the legal matters. Since I became pregnant he acts like he doesn't care bout me or this baby. We both have children with previous relationships. I look at all the kids equally but he acts like the child he already has is more important then the one growing in me. I had almost lost the baby and he seemed like it didn't matter to him. Now that I am passed the miscarriage scare he still has me on a rollercoaster of him wanting to be with me, doesn't know what he wants, we are together, we arent ect... I have been trying to work everything out with him but he just says we might as well not try any more because no one wants us to be together and I even offer suggestions and he makes excuses. Anytime I ask him to come see me there is always a fight that occurs because he makes excuses but denies that he is even doing that to me. I need help, advise anything... how do i try to get this relationship to work for the sake of a baby that isn't even in this world yet?? My 2 children come from a divorced home his daughter comes from a similar but a little different situation as this baby... what do i do to get him to remember what made him fall in love with me in the first place? what do i do to get him to try to make us work??
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