Thanks guys!!
Each and every poster is helpful.
Bridger:
Do you have desires? Dreams? Fantasies? Do they involve a certain gender, or certain acts, or settings.
This is like one of the very first questions my T asked me in the very brief time we discussed this. I really don't. This is when I asked my T if I was asexual. She said she didn't think so, but that you can just shut down the sexual part of you completely, and that is what she thinks I did. As far as dreams (like sleeping dreams), I have dreamt of erotic things with the male and female sex--though there have been few of them. Fantasies? I don't have those! Though in being completely honest, I do read lesbian erotica. What does that mean?