You're not a prude bee, I don't think those who've not been confronted with this situation can fully appreciate the damage it does. It's one thing to support those having the addiction it's another to witness the devastation it causes to partners.

Partners rarely get the support they need and their feelings are not considered at any point. No one is saying that porn doesn't have it's place, but masturbating six or more times a day is not normal. And when it takes away intimacy from a relationship it is beyond a simple desire to peep & pry.

It is at that point there comes a threshold that can lead to breaking the law and using the "addiction" as an excuse for breaking the law and being a sex offender.

I still say that you need the support of a therapist to help you through this bee,

Best of luck and please message me if you want to talk