Hello anjelmarie,

I agree with bloom regarding changing him hon, but the other thing is treating him the way his niece treats him is only compounding his problem or issue.

I don't think he is treating you badly but I would be telling that niece where to get off, I agree that she needs putting in her place and needs teaching that she has met someone who isn't going to be bullied. And if needed you will have to speak for both of you.

If you love him you do, if you don't you don't, finances shouldn't come into it at all as far as how you feel about him. But I get too that you were just venting and were so over the situation with the niece.

I feel, that she should immediatley be sent home and not live with you. That is just going too far and you will have your own family if you stay together and when you are ready for it and want one. But if she stays it will be the end of your relationship.

If you do love him, don't let it happen. Best of luck to you anjelmarie and don't give in or up if you are not ready to give in.

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